The Word of God is active and alive (Hebrews 4:12) and ministers to us as we read it. The Holy Spirit brings fresh insights and new understanding to familiar verses as we faithfully read the Word every day. Recently I have been noting things as I read. Things that I had never noticed or thought about before. Fresh understanding. New insights.
Example: Jesus chose faith over family. Jesus puts allegiance to His blood above allegiance to familial blood. We, of course, see this in the following Scriptures:
Matthew 10:34-39 “Do not think that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I have not come to bring peace, but a sword. For I have come to set a man against his father, and a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law. And a person’s enemies will be those of his own household. Whoever loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me, and whoever loves son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me. And whoever does not take his cross and follow me is not worthy of me. Whoever finds his life will lose it, and whoever loses his life for my sake will find it.”
Then I was reading the story of Jesus’s crucifixion and made a link to these well known verses quoted above.
The most poignant picture of Jesus Himself choosing faith over family was when He hung on the cross and told John, His disciple, rather than James, His half brother, to take care of Mary His mother. Roman Catholics believe that James was Jesus’ cousin instead of half brother, but the principle is still the same: Jesus chooses the faithful disciple over the nearest blood relative to take care of His mother. John 7:5 paints James as an unbeliever during Jesus’ lifetime, something that changed radically when Jesus visited James following the resurrection (1 Corinthians 15:7). Jude, another half brother (or cousin), also became a believer and wrote a letter in the New Testament that bears his name. So there were at least two male near relatives that Jesus could have charged to care for His widowed mother. Instead, Jesus chose a man of faith over a blood relative.
We live in an era in the Church where family loyalty Is sometimes presented as the highest loyalty, but that doesn’t square with either Jesus’ teaching or practice.
Luke 14:26-27 “If anyone comes to me and does not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters, yes, and even his own life, he cannot be my disciple. Whoever does not bear his own cross and come after me cannot be my disciple.”
The word “hate” here is a comparison word. It doesn’t mean you emotionally hate (bear ill will towards) your relatives. It means that in comparison to your loyalty to Jesus, someone watching you would see that there’s not even a contest. Your love for Jesus and commitment to His work are so strong that no one, not even your closest relative, can pull you away from your true allegiance. You are going to go with Jesus every time.
When Jesus was out ministering, He didn’t allow family drama to distract Him. On one occasion, He is interrupted by a family visit and seems almost harsh in his indifference. It’s not that Jesus is apathetic toward His family; it’s that He is passionate about His mission:
“While he was still speaking to the people, behold, his mother and his brothers stood outside, asking to speak to him. But he replied to the man who told him, “Who is my mother, and who are my brothers?” And stretching out his hand toward his disciples, he said, “Here are my mother and my brothers! For whoever does the will of my Father in heaven is my brother and sister and mother.” (Matthew 12:46-50)
Another way of looking at this is that Jesus valued spending time with the “reliable people” —His followers, eager disciples, and earnest listeners — over blood relatives, some of whom (prior to His resurrection) seemed to have doubts. And who knows? Perhaps Jesus’ willingness to walk away from His family while they resisted Him opened the door to their walking towards Him following the resurrection.
Our closest ties aren’t to our blood family; they’re to our faith family — those who do “the will of My Father in heaven.” If those are the true brothers and sisters of Jesus, they must become our closest siblings as well. This means that if our blood relatives are not believers we will be closer to our faith family members while still loving – not hating – our original family members.
Just a fresh insight from my walk with the Word!