Drinking Coffee In An Airport

I am in my third of four airports for the day. A 14 hour travel day and I am doing what I usually do when flying and when waiting for a flight. Reading and drinking good coffee. And, when I tire of reading and have run out of things to share in an email with my accountability partner then I watch people. 

People are amazing. They come in all different shapes and sizes. They come in different colours. Some speak loudly and others speak softly. They can be relaxed, uptight, anxious, worried, frightened, or apparently at peace with themselves and the world around them. Some look refreshed and ready to go. Others look tired and wanting to finally board their last flight home. Young and old and every age in-between. As I watch some walk with an assurance and a confidence. Others walk with a definite uncertainty and caution. Some are simply lost and can’t find their gate no matter how hard they are apparently trying. People are interesting.

Here is a deep thought… every person walking by me at this moment has two things in common. First, they are travelling from somewhere to somewhere. I told you it was deep. Secondly, every one of them is dying. Some may be young, others may be old but they are all on the journey of life and this journey will, one day, come to an end. They will “pass” as everyone says it today. They will physically die and cease to be a viable human being on the planet as their earth suit (body) is finished. Life has left it.

But this is not the end of life for these people. They truly have “passed.” They have passed from life to death and from planet Earth to … and here’s the rub. They have predetermined their final resting place – heaven or hell. If they have a vibrant, personal, love relationship with Jesus that is a daily reality, then they have chosen ahead of time to enter heaven. And, Jesus, because of His relationship with them, has prepared a place for them for when they arrive. Others, because they have neglected the message of hope and love known as the Gospel of the Kingdom (Matthew 24:14) will have a place reserved for them in hell. John’s gospel speaks of this…

John 3:18 “Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only Son of God.”

Please note that their sins don’t send them to hell. They chose not to believe in who Jesus is and what He accomplished through His death on the cross. This lack of belief or faith in Christ and His completed work is what opens the door to hell as their final place to spend eternity. They have chosen this place. God did not condemn them to be there forever. He made a way out and sent His Son to die for us (see: John 3:16-17). Jesus made a way where there was no way. And, if we choose not to believe and to ignore or reject His offer then we can blame no one but ourselves for where life finally takes us. 

Every person born upon the earth has a default setting of “hell”. So, when they pass that is where the go. However, we can change that default setting by understanding the true Christian message of salvation by grace through faith. And, receiving Jesus as Lord, Saviour, Master, and the Christ – the only door into eternity and God’s presence. When you come to believe that Jesus has made a way where there was no way and receive His gift of the supernatural ability to have a personal relationship with Him (called eternal life – John 17:3) then you have reset your default setting to Heaven.

So, a lot of people walking past me here in the airport rushing to or from their next destination are also moving forward in life to their final destination. And, not one of us knows when that day when we ‘cross over’ is going to be. 

Makes one sense the urgency to tell people the good news of the Gospel… that Jesus still saves today.  

Seized With Power

The early Church was birthed on the day of Pentecost when those gathered together were baptized in the Holy Spirit (Acts 2). In Samaria (Acts 8) Philip brings people into the born again experience and then a few days later apostles from Jerusalem travel to Samaria and we see the Holy Spirit decent upon the new believers and they are baptized in the Holy Spirit. The same experience is noted in Acts 10 with Peter while he was preaching to Cornelius and his household. 

The baptism in the Holy Spirit was a powerful part of the life of the early Church. An essential part. Today, it is given lip service, people pray in tongues, and we call ourselves Spirit-filled believers. Well, not really. The Baptism in the Holy Spirit is much more than the gift of a private prayer language. 

First is a fulfillment of a promise that our heavenly Father made to His people (the gathered ones) many centuries before. Jesus told His disciples:

Luke 24:49 “And I will send the fulfillment of the Father’s promise to you. So stay here in the city until the mighty power of heaven falls upon you and wraps around you.” 

(The Passion Translation)

The word “promise” here – the Aramaic reads “the kingdom” or “rule.” In other words, the Father’s promise would be the coming of the Holy Spirit to live in them and empower them (come upon them) as a sign that the Kingdom is now established upon the earth and that His rule is now active in the lives of the believers. So much more than speaking in tongues. 

Jesus comments again about the importance of the experience and encounter.

Acts 1:5 “John baptized you in water, but in a few days from now you will be baptized in the Holy Spirit.”     (The Passion Translation) 

Again, in the Aramaic, it implies that the disciples would be the ones who would do the baptizing: “John baptized you in water, but you will baptize [others] in the Holy Spirit.”

And, as we are aware, the purpose of the baptism in the Holy Spirit is not that we could speak in tongues and have a private prayer language – as important as that might be. The purpose of the baptism in the Holy Spirit is to empower the believer to move in the supernatural power that raised Jesus from the dead and, in so doing, to give witness to non-believers that Jesus is alive and the Saviour.

Acts 1:8 “But I promise you this – the Holy Spirit will come upon you and you will be seized with power. And you will be my messengers…”      (The Passion Translation)

Again, in Aramaic the phrase “seized with power” could be translated “you will seize power. This, of course, changes the whole picture giving us the task of seizing and not just passively receiving. We have to desire it, reach for it, receive it, and then use it.

The early Church seized this power and were seized by it. Their emphasis was not speaking in or praying in tongues. In fact, the only main reference to tongues being a private prayer language is in 1 Corinthians 14 where Paul the apostle mentions it. Tongues as a way for God to communicate with us (connected to the interpretation of tongues) is mentioned more often than a private prayer language. 

Regretfully today we have majored on the ‘speaking in tongues’ both as a sign that you have been baptized in the Holy Spirit and as a major benefit of the baptism. I believe that the main focus of the Baptism is to empower us to witness – not to empower us the talk to the heavenly Father as we can do that, in His presence, in our own natural language any time we want to. It is time to emphasize the biblical reason for the Baptism – not tongues, but witnessing and fully proclaiming the Gospel. It is time to walk in the power and see miracles, signs, and wonders backing up the sharing of the gospel.

Romans 15:18-19 “And I will not be presumptuous to speak of anything except what Christ has accomplished through me. For many non-Jewish people are coming into faith’s obedience by the power of the Spirit of God, which is displayed through mighty signs and amazing wonders, both in word and deed. Starting from Jerusalem I went from place to place as far as the distant Roman province of Illyricum, fully preaching the wonderful message of Christ.” (The Passion Translation)

A Drink Becomes a River

Jesus is talking to the woman at the well. It is noon in the Middle East. The story is found in John, Chapter 4. The conversation starts with talking about physical water and quenching one’s thirst from the noon day sun that was beating down. Jesus quickly turns the conversation to spiritual water – a life-giving spiritual drink.

John 4:13-14 “If you drink from Jacob’s well you’ll be thirsty again and again, but if anyone drinks the living water I give them, they will never thirst again and will be forever satisfied! For when you drink the water I give you it becomes a gushing fountain of the Holy Spirit, springing up and flooding you with endless life!”

This is a direct reference to Isaiah’s comment:

Isaiah 12:3 “With joy you will draw water from the wells of salvation.”

So Jesus is speaking of a well or a fountain that supplies you with spiritual water so that you will never thirst again. You are born again (saved – salvation) and thus have God’s life-giving Holy Spirit in your spirit and He will satisfy your thirst for meaning, purpose, direction, guidance, acceptance, and forgiveness and lead you into your divine destiny. You will have abundant life and be extremely fulfilled as your walk with Him in God’s perfect will for your life.

But the drink can become a river so others can drink from it and be refreshed, encouraged, and receive eternal life, endless life. We find this mentioned in John, Chapter seven…

John 7:37-39a “Then on the most important day of the feast, the last day, Jesus stood and shouted out to the crowds—“All you thirsty ones, come to me! Come to me and drink! Believe in me so that rivers of living water will burst out from within you, flowing from your innermost being, just like the Scripture says!” Jesus was prophesying about the Holy Spirit that believers were being prepared to receive…”

Once a person drinks of the waters of the well (fountain) of salvation and is saved they receive so much from the Lord on a daily basis that they will not thirst for meaning and purpose – the reason and purpose of life – ever again. But, with the second encounter with the Holy Spirit – the Baptism of the Holy Spirit (see Luke 24:49; Acts 1:5, 1:8) – the drink becomes a river and many can drink from this inner river flowing out from you. And, as they find answers for their questions and drink deeply they will receive living water – the fountain or well… and the cycle begins again. This new convert needs to then be told of the Baptism in the Holy Spirit so that their drink can also turn into a river and others will come to know Jesus as Lord and Saviour and be refreshed. 

The Baptism in the Holy Spirit is so important today. With this experience and encounter with the Holy Spirit you then have the power of God working through you to touch others with the “river.” The Baptism is important and absolutely essential for sharing that “drink” with others. 

So many believers have the well or fountain but never receive the river. So, in their life the drink never becomes a river. And, they seldom see miracles, signs, and wonders or people delivered from the domain of darkness into the Kingdom of light. They can share the knowledge of the Gospel but cannot demonstrate that it is true. So, they help people understand the message of the Gospel in their heads but their hearts are left in the same state they were in before coming to understand the message. There is no conviction of the Spirit resulting in true repentance and forgiveness. They say a sinner’s prayer because they understand but without repentance there is no salvation. But, with the river flowing people will be convicted of their sins and their hearts will be transformed while their hearts are being informed. And, they will then taste of the real water – they will have a drink. 

Paul states that to fully proclaim the Gospel you need words (the well or fountain) and miracles, signs, and wonders (the river). Listen to his words:

Romans 15:18-19 “And I will not be presumptuous to speak of anything except what Christ has accomplished through me. For many non-Jewish people are coming into faith’s obedience by the power of the Spirit of God, which is displayed through mighty signs and amazing wonders, both in word and deed. Starting from Jerusalem I went from place to place as far as the distant Roman province of Illyricum, fully preaching the wonderful message of Christ.” (The Passion Translation)

So, after you have had a drink, don’t settle for just a well of living water. Seek after and receive the river of living water that come through the Baptism in the Holy Spirit. Then others will come to know the Living Jesus Christ through your words and deeds as you fully proclaim the Gospel of the Kingdom. 

Great Questions to Ask

We have been chatting recently about spending time with those who are spiritually disconnected. And, how to have the same heart for the lost that Jesus had. In the process we saw that we don’t need to know the answers to all the questions that we will be asked as we engage in conversations with the spiritually disconnected. Today, let’s look at some of the questions that we could ask a non-believer as we speak with them informally…

As you watch the Holy Spirit open doors for spiritual conversations, you can feel free to ask some questions that might spark meaningful interaction. Don’t be afraid to ask good questions and really listen to people’s answers. The point of a well-asked question is not to set you up to unload your spiritual wisdom on others, but to create space for meaningful discussion. Of course, If the door opens to share your story of faith or the gospel message, then wonderful! Walk through that door. But you can have a meaningful spiritual conversation without having to close it with a gospel presentation.

Here are some questions that could move your conversation with non-believers to deeper levels of spiritual interaction:

  • What are some joys you are experiencing in this season of your life?

Most people would love to share about the good things in their lives, but they are afraid that others won’t care. Just by asking and listening, you open the door for great interaction. Also, if there are clear signs that God is blessing their life, you could open the door for conversation about the source of all good things.

  • What challenges and struggles are you facing?

People will share their pains and hurts with someone who really cares about them and takes the time to listen. As they share, you may find that it becomes an opportunity to minister the grace of Jesus. Sharing struggles can also create space for you to pray for or with them. 

  • What is your personal history when it come to faith and God?

This question is not so much about what people believe as it is about their personal histories. A person might say, “I have no history when it comes to religion,” or “I grew up going to Mass every week and my parents are quite devout,” or “I have always been very spiritual and I still read my horoscope daily and do a lot of meditation.” No matter what answer they give, you end up learning something about their journey that may allow you to move the conversation to a deeper level. 

  • What do you believe about God?

With this question, we move into more personal convictions and beliefs. Again, no matter how they answer, remember that you are learning and already going deeper than a typical conversation. Some Christians feel pressured to correct “wrong thinking” or “errant theology” in their conversation with non-believers. Try not to do this. Just listen and learn where they are coming from; then you’ll gain a sense of where they still need to go on their journey toward Jesus. 

  • What if your perception of Christians?

Or put another way, “What is your perception of Christianity or of the Christian church?” It takes courage to ask this question, listen, and not get defensive. But I have found that it can be an open door to deeper conversation.

When it comes to asking good questions, the key is to keep them open-ended. Create space to talk. Don’t become defensive and tell people where they are wrong. Just listen, learn, hear their hearts, and get a sense of where they are in their spiritual journeys. Even an angry atheist is on a journey. They are just very far from God. By listening to their perspective, you can learn how to pray, reach out, and walk with them toward the Saviour. 

Sharing Your Uncertainty with Non-believers

Here is a truth that needs to seek deep into your heart and mind: “You don’t need to know all the answers.” When I am talking with non-believers who don’t know Jesus I am willing to admit that I (and we – Christians) don’t have all the answers to life’s tough questions. Christians aren’t always certain about everything in this life, in our faith, or even in the Bible. No one understands everything with absolute clarity. God is just way too big for us to proudly declare that we have every aspect of our lives and faith nailed down., The fact that we still struggle with our own questions will help unbelievers see that they don’t need to have everything figured out before surrendering their lives to Jesus.

A clear Bible example of this concept is the blind man in John 9. This man had come to faith in Jesus through a powerful healing encounter. Now the religious authorities were asking him complex questions that he was not equipped to answer. Instead of pretending he had it all figured out, the man admitted what he did not know and affirmed what he did know. He said of Jesus, “Whether He is sinner or not, I don’t know. One thing I do know. I was blind and now I see!” (John 9:25). When we are honest about our uncertainties, we can also be bold about what we know with confidence.

When I encounter a person who struggles with why there is so much pain in the world, I have to be honest and admit that I wonder about this too. They might even say, “How can a loving God allow so much violence and suffering?” I don’t try and give a tight defence of God and tell them it’s easy to understand why suffering exists. Instead, I enter into an honest conversation and struggle with them.

I am not ashamed to admit that I have a hard time understanding why thousands of women are sold into sex slavery every year, why entire towns can be buried under the rubble of an earthquake, and why AIDS is devastating entire countries in Africa. In these moments, I don’t try and defend God; I just listen and share my own struggles over the violence and pain that so many experience.

As the conversation presses on, I might recommend they read the first chapter of Lee Strobel’s book, “The Case for Faith.” Strobel does a better job than I could ever do of walking through biblical and logical arguments for how suffering can exist in a universe created and sustained by a loving God. We may be able to provide reasonable answers to many of the questions that spiritual seekers raise, but sometimes the best response is to be honest and say, “That’s a great question, and I wonder about that sometimes too.”

When I run into people who are wondering about all the different world religions and how anyone can be sure that their faith is trustworthy and true, I don’t give the glib answer, “I just know they are all wrong and my faith is right!” Instead, I ask questions about their faith background and talk about what my faith means to me. I do my best to explain the solid historical evidence that supports the Christian faith. Often, I direct them to a great book like “Choosing Your Faith” by Mark Mittelburg. In this resource they will get far more help than I can offer.

When people question the Bible or mention things they just don’t understand, I usually say something like, “Join the club! I’m still trying to figure out a lot of things – and I’m a leader!” I don’t question the authority or truth of God’s Word; I believe that every single word of the Bible is breathed by God (2 Timothy 3:16) and that the Scriptures are true from the first word of Genesis to the last work of Revelation. But I do confess that there are things in the Bible I don’t fully understand. God is bigger than me, and His ways are higher than mine. I’m comfortable admitting that I don’t have everything in the Bible figured out.

Admitting we don’t have all the answers will often open the door for ongoing conversations. When I am faced with a question that I’m unable to answer completely, I admit that I don’t have all the information, but because I care about the person asking the question, I will go to others and spend more time in study to get a more complete answer. When we are in a spiritual conversation and someone asks a question we can’t answer, it is usually wise just to say, “Let me do a little study and reflect on that and get back to you.” Some Christians fell like they need to have all the answers, so they make up an answer on the spot. This is unwise. Instead, just humbly admit, “That’s a great question, and I don’t have a good answer right now. Let me get back to you on that.” Then make sure to follow up with the person and share what you have learned. 

Raising Your Spiritual Temperature – Part Three (end)

The last two days we have been looking at how to raise our spiritual temperature for building relationships with the lost and sharing Jesus with them was somewhat lacking for many today. We looked at what we need to do to raise our spiritual / evangelistic temperature and thus become committed to and deeply involved in The Great Commission – reach the lost, the last, and the least, the spiritually disconnected.

1> Engage in prayer for the spiritually disconnected (you might call them the lost) on a consistent and regular basis

2> Make time to be with those who are far from God

3> Tell stories

4> Make celebration natural

5> Spend time reflecting on eternity

Oner way to raise our spiritual temperature and thus love for the spiritually disconnected is to spend time reflecting on eternity and the eternal consequences facing those who don’t have a personal relationship with Jesus.

The reality of Heaven kindles the flame of our evangelistic fire because we long for people to know the glory and wonder of being in fellowship with God who loves them in this life and for eternity. What an amazing motivator! Through faith in Jesus and by embracing the grace that He offers, we can be assured of intimacy with God. We can be restored to communion with our Creator God for all of eternity. And while some might worry that the hope of Heaven makes us a bunch of “pie in the sky, by and by” nuts, this clear teaching of Scripture is a powerful motivator. There is a real Heaven, it will be glorious, and it will be our home through faith in Christ. 

Reflecting on the other side of the coin can be helpful too. Hell is real, and those who are not saved by God’s grace through Jesus Christ will spend eternity separated from God. I wish there was no such place, but I don’t have the right to take out scissors and remove things in the Bible that I don’t like. Living with a sober awareness of hell stirs us to help people meet Jesus and make Heaven their eternal destination rather than hell. 

The existence of Heaven and hell are not the only reason we share the gospel, but they are powerful motivators. The we accept the truth of the Bible, the reality of Heaven and hell stirs us to reach out to others with the grace and message of Jesus. 

To conclude… Passion and vision leak. But God is ready to fill us with His Spirit afresh and give to us a renewed desire to share His grace and love. By being aware of our own heart condition and outreach temperature, we are well on our way to living lives of organic outreach.

Even if I am fired up about evangelism today, there is a good chance I will be apathetic about it next week. Because the forces of hell come against the work of outreach, we will no doubt become distracted, discouraged, and disillusioned. To counter the tendency to lose our outreach passion, we can apply these five thoughts or suggestions to our lives and they will help us to take steps to increase our spiritual temperature every day of our life. 

A reminder of the five…

1> Engage in prayer for the spiritually disconnected (you might call them the lost) on a consistent and regular basis

2> Make time to be with those who are far from God

3> Tell stories

4> Make celebration natural

5> Spend time reflecting on eternity

Raising Your Spiritual Temperature – Part Two

Last time we saw that for many disciples of Jesus our spiritual temperature for building relationships with the lost and sharing Jesus with them was somewhat lacking for many today. We began to look at what we need to do to raise our spiritual / evangelistic temperature and thus become committed to and deeply involved in The Great Commission – reach the lost, the last, and the least, the spiritually disconnected.

1> Engage in prayer for the spiritually disconnected (you might call them the lost) on a consistent and regular basis

2> Make time to be with those who are far from God

Along with praying for the lost and praying for yourself as you seek to reach out, make time to be with those who are far from God. Look at your schedule and honestly evaluate how much time you spend with non-Christians each week. Be sure you don’t get sucked into the black hole of church-related activities; instead, push yourself out into the community.

Far too many Christians have become insulated from the world. But Jesus intentionally and consistently spent time with people who were irreligious and even hostile to the faith. From what we can tell, Jesus even enjoyed being around these people, in their homes, at their parties, and involved in their lives. 

When we spend time face-to-face and heart-to-heart with those who are far from God, our evangelistic temperature is guaranteed to skyrocket! Following in the footsteps of Jesus, we begin to have hearts like His, filled with love and longing for people to know the grace that He offers them. If you have become too busy with church activities and hanging out with Christian friends, it might be time to make some changes in your schedule. Make time for family members, friends, and neighbours who are far from God.

3> Tell stories

Another way to raise your temperature is to tell stories. When you spend time with other Christians, use that time to do some mutual heart igniting. Tell stories about spiritual conversations you are having, about people you know who have come to faith in Christ, and about the steps forward people have taken in their spiritual journey. Talk openly about people you are praying for and reaching out to. Ask other believers what they are doing to share their faith. Talking like this should be an ordinary and organic part of our conversations with other Christians. As we talk together about how God is working among those we are reaching out to, temperatures rise. 

4> Make celebration natural

Another way to boost your spiritual temperature for reaching the lost and thus fulfilling The Great Commission is to make celebration natural. In your home, church, workplace – anywhere God takes you – make time to celebrate whenever someone takes a step forward in faith. 

When someone crosses the line of faith and receives God’s grace through Jesus Christ, temperatures jump! It’’s like pouring gas on a campfire. The angels of heaven rejoice and so should we (Luke 15:10). When we hear of a person accepting Jesus, we should tell their story to every believer we meet., This is not a time for quiet and introspective reflection. It’s a time to dance, sing, jump, and rejoice!

As we celebrate God’s amazing grace and rejoice that another sheep has been found, we will find ourselves longing for more, and our hearts will cry out to God with renewed passion.

Stories of conversion remind us that God has the power to soften the hardest of hearts. They propel us forward with renewed energy to pray, love, and share the gospel. 

Raising Your Spiritual Temperature – Part One

Have you given any thought recently to The Great Commission? Or, in reality, have you written it off as a ‘great suggestion’ and thus not something you are planning to become involved in? Many believers do not have a consistent focus on the lost and are self-focusing as life is busy and there are always issues, needs, and desires that demand our attention. So, there is little time or energy left over to connect with and be concerned about those who are spiritually disconnected.

One day each and every one of us will be held accountable for what we have done with the gifts, skills, and talents that the Lord blessed us with. One day we will stand before the Lord and He will speak to us about the fruit that we, as believers and disciples, were called to bear – fruit, much fruit, eternal fruit (John 15). And, at that point it will be too late to make any changes. However, if you are reading this, it is not too late yet…

I was recently in Moscow ministering at an Armenian Church and had an evening with the youth of the church. It was a questions and answers session and near the end there were several questions about how I keep my passion for the lost in the midst of both a busy life and ministry. This led to one of the most powerful prayer times I have ever been a part of as I individually prayed for every person present that their heart would be broken by what breaks the Lord’s heart – the height of His creation, human beings, going to hell because they did not know Him. Powerful and life changing – for them and for me.

So, how do we engage with The Great Commission? How do we get excited and committed to reach the world for Jesus one person at a time? Let’s refresh your memory regarding exactly what The Great Commission is…

Jesus said, “Then Jesus came close to them and said, ‘All the authority of the universe has been given to me. Now go in my authority and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. And teach them to faithfully follow all that I have commanded you. And never forget that I am with you every day, even to the completion of this age.’” (Matthew 28:18-20 The Passion Translation)

1> Engage in prayer for the spiritually disconnected (you might call them the lost) on a consistent and regular basis

Pray for people that God has placed in your life who are spiritually disconnected. Make a list, post a note, put a reminder in your electronic calendar, set an alarm so that you will remember to pray. 

When you pray, ask God the Father to draw people to Himself. Ask the Holy Spirit to speak to them, soften their hearts, and draw them Jesus. Cry out for God to do whatever needs to be done that they might see their need for a Saviour and respond to the conviction of the Holy Spirit. 

Pray that your heart will go out to these people. Jesus taught His followers to cry out to God to send workers for the harvest because the fields are ripe and ready. Let God know you are ready to extend His love and hope. Ask the Spirit to open your eyes to notice people in need. Pray for boldness to serve others in the Name of Jesus. And, pray for wisdom to know the right time to share your testimony and the message of Jesus. 

Pray for the Holy Spirit of God to give you eyes to see beyond the realm of the physical. Ask God to pull back the veil and let you see and experience people as He does. This prayer will undoubtedly turn your life upside down. Just as Elisha prayed for his servant’’s eyes to be opened (2 Kings 6:17), we can pray, “Open my eyes so I can see.” When God, in the power of the Spirit, opens our eyes to see this world as He does, our evangelistic temperatures will rise and ice-cold hearts will melt with a love for those who are spiritually disconnected.

Growing a Heart of Love

When we were born again the Holy Spirit poured God’s love into our hearts. (Romans 5:5) As we follow Jesus because of His love for us we see how His love can touch and change the lives of other people we know and meet as we share His love with them in so many ways. 

I have discovered that the longer I walk with Jesus and follow Him the less I focus on this love and simply take it for granted. I have also discovered that spreading that love to others who do not know Him becomes less and less of a priority as I begin to take His love for granted and life continues on as before. So then I find myself needing to “grow a heart of love” towards the lost once again. In other words, going back to the basics of the faith – loving people enough to tell them the Good News of salvation through Christ’s life, death, and resurrection.

To being regrowing a heart of love for those who are lost, broken, and wandering far from God, we can pray that God will give us a heart like Jesus’ heart towards those who are still living on the borderlands of faith. Pray for God’s love to fill our hearts to overflowing.

But be warned: this prayer is dangerous.

It’s risky to pray this because when we ask God to give us His heart, we know that this is one prayer He is always willing to answer. His love will help us feel on a new and deeper level. Jesus wept over Jerusalem (Luke 19:41). God loves people with absolute desperation. If we have even a small fraction of God’s heart for people, tears will flow, compassion will grow, and hearts will break. We will never be the same.

Another way we can grow our heart for those who are spiritually disconnected is to study the life of Jesus. As we discover how the Saviour related to those who were deep in sin and spiritually lost, we can gain a vision for connecting with others that will shape our hearts and our lifestyle choices. Jesus talked with and let His heart be touched by an adulterous woman (John 8:1-11), a dishonest businessman (Luke 19:1-9), “sinners” (Matthew 9:9-12), and a broken woman (Luke 7:36-50). Jesus’ example and his love for people, even the ‘tough people,’ can inform our priorities and help reshape our hearts into ones that look a lot like His.

One additional way we can grow a heart for people on the borderlands of faith is to notice and connect with people who are far from God. Jesus had a way of seeing the sick, stopping for the broken, making space for children, touching those who had leprosy, and connecting in an authentic way with people many others in the religious community avoided. 

We can develop a discipline of noticing and making space for those who are spiritually disconnected and often marginalized even by Christians. As you spend time with these people, God will grow new love within you.

As we prepare the soil of our hearts for the work of outreach, it is critical that love rules the day. Love brought God from Heaven. Love put Jesus on the cross. Love offered salvation to you and me. And love will drive us to our knees in prayer and then into the world searching for those who are still lost. When we love God and our hearts are captured by His love, we are compelled to reach out to those who are still far from Jesus. 


In review, we have previously looked at the following points regarding telling your story about what Jesus has done and is doing in your life…

1> Ask for permission and don’t be pushy.                                                                                    2> Use ordinary language.                                                                                                                  3> Start briefly and share more as it becomes appropriate.                                                        4> Highlight God’s presence and power

5> Clearly present the before-and-after pictures

6> Share the source of life transformation

7> Let the joy shine through


A testimony is not a bludgeon we use to pound people into submission. It is a witness to what God is doing in our lives and a gift for others to enjoy. We need to be careful that our testimony does not come across as a speech in which we tell people that we are right and they are wrong, or point out how good we are now and how bad everyone else is who does not know Jesus. Rather, a testimony is a humble declaration that God is moving in our lives and that we are grateful for what He is doing.


Be careful not to get locked into one testimony. Don’t just memorize a scrip and robotically deliver the same words with the same inflection every time you tell your story. Instead, listen to the people around you and discover where they are in life. When you share a testimony, make sure it is relevant for them.

For example, if you are talking with someone who is dealing with loneliness and you have experienced God’s presence in a way that has strengthened you when you have felt alone, share that testimony. But if you are conversing with a spiritual seeker who is wondering if God provides for our needs and takes care of His people, you might tell a very different story – a different part of your testimony. As you walk with Jesus, you will have more and more stories about how a relationship with God transforms various areas of your life.

People love to hear stories, and that’s all a testimony is. In the course of most days you will have opportunities to share organically about the difference your faith in Jesus is making in your life. Pray for these opportunities, notice when the door is open, and then share your stories in a natural way. 

The Holy Spirit will infuse what you share with power. Remember, your part is not to change lives or even to have all the answers. But you can talk about the ways God is moving in your life. Your stories might be just what another person needs to hear.